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There's a kind of thinking where asking someone a question is inherently an act of shaming them.
There's a related kind of thinking where refusing to take action until someone has answered your question is an even bigger act of shaming them.
This is fundamentally in conflict with ways of thinking that respect express consent.
Not all cultures are equal and it is safe to call this kind of thinking toxic.
There's a related kind of thinking where refusing to take action until someone has answered your question is an even bigger act of shaming them.
This is fundamentally in conflict with ways of thinking that respect express consent.
Not all cultures are equal and it is safe to call this kind of thinking toxic.